advice? Always remember you didn't marry him to clean the house,
Love isn’t knowing what a person’s favorite color, food or drink is as much as it’s knowing who he/she is on the inside. Their likes and dislikes are important, but what you become when you are with them is even more important. - Rachel Carrington, author, www.rachelcarrington.blogspot.com
And here is one from a friend of mine, an 80-year-old widow who spent the last ten years completing a travel/cookbook/memoir her husband started before he died.
"Phil and I knew the day we married that we’d always be together. When we said until death do us part, we took the words literally. And now, here I am almost sixty years from the date I first said “I do,” and though the love of my life is no longer with me, I still do. I loved him then. I love him now, and I will always love him. Loving is a choice as much as living. Choose to do both well.~Cree Forman, author of Phil and The French Country Inn.
Our experience of life is not based
on our life but on what we pay attention to - wow is that true of love and
marriage. Watch what you pay attention to - there's a reason why they say
"familiarity breeds contempt." Don't fall into that trap - focus on what you
love about him.
Sparkle's Advice: ... if this is your
partner find out what fires up their heart ...
Sparkle's Mom's Advice: The first 5 years are boot camp ...
have a luxury fund!
Decide what you want out of
life. Write it down, then trust a
If you want me to do something, just ask. Don't expect me to invent
things to do for you as well as do them. Sorry, that'll never
happen." - Cousin Mike
Find someone who is just the way you want
them to be and fall in Love with them
My LOVE ADVICE - I would say
#1 is a never-ending commitment to personal
It may be
better. It may be worse, but it will never be the same.
Learn how to cook what he likes to eat.
Play Cashflow before you get married ...
money affects everything you do.
My Ship comes in
over a calm sea.
You may be
disappointed if you fail, but you are doomed if you don't try.
If the only prayer
you ever say in your whole life is 'thank you" that
A helping word to
one in trouble is often like a switch on a railroad
track ... an inch between wreck and smooth, rolling
Love doesn't make
Trouble is part of your life -
The first step toward success is taken when you
refuse to be a captive of the environment in which you first find
turtle. He makes progress only when he sticks his neck out.
Isolation is the darkroom in which
we develop our negatives.
Intimacy comes from
Be who you are and say what you feel because people who mind
don't matter and people who matter don't mind. -Dr. Seuss
Choose your life’s mate
In order to be a realist, you
I would worry less about what people think of me if I knew how
Service is Love.
There was a time
when the risk
If you can’t
change someone else eventually you’ll have to change yourself ...
You have to look up
if you want
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