Relationship Advice? The above poem was written by a terminally ill young girl in a New York Hospital. It was sent by her doctor to a friend who sent it to a friend and somehow it ended up in my email box one day - sent to me by a friend. I thank her and the chain of Love that brought this to us - to you - today.

My best advice? Hang out with mentors, communities, friends & family - with those who are great at Love and learn from them. That's what I did. Love was my challenge. Relationship after relationship I kept ending up with the same person. Why? Because I was the same person! Finally it hurt enough and I went for help from the pros. Then I started interviewing them, reading their books, filling out their questionnaires i.e. allowing the "best of the best" to coach me. It took time for my heart to soften & for me to learn how to listen and do what I was told. I was/am stubborn and committed to what I know how to do - whether it works or not! Sound familiar?

If you are up for a change ... If you realize that "like attracts like" and you are ready to change - grow you - not them...  And, If you are ready for Love you've come to the right place! Welcome & Love on! Viveca